Or Keto, Paleo, Low Carb, Ancestral, Carnivore, or anything else?
Over the past year and a half, I’ve noticed a clear pattern in my client work, and I want to talk about it openly, because I know many of you are quietly dealing with the same confusion.
Several of my clients came to me from the pro-metabolic world. Women who were genuinely trying to heal their bodies, do things differently, and step away from restriction and into the world of Ray Peat.
Before anyone warms up their keyboard to come at me, let me say this clearly: pro-metabolic principles can be incredibly healing for the right person, at the right time, with the right context and support.
But what most people actually practice in reality is:
Eating high carb AND high fat. All day. Every day. With zero understanding of energy balance (calories in vs. calories out).
This world romanticizes that you can eat croissants, orange juice, cheese, honey, whole milk, fatty meat, endless sourdough bread, and giant slabs of butter on everything while you "heal your metabolism" to tolerate high amounts of calories.
What woman wouldn't try this after years of restriction and dieting?
And while you can make foods like that work into your daily diet, energy in vs. energy out still matters.
Courtney, Liz, Lisa, and countless other clients all arrived to me from pro-metabolic carrying an extra 20 to 40 pounds.
Not from bingeing, emotional eating spirals, or “letting go.” But from sincerely applying what they believed was metabolically supportive eating.
The truth is, while many of these foods are very nutrient-dense, they are also very calorically dense, being high-carb and high-fat when consumed together, meal after meal.
That combination is extremely rare in nature, with the avocado being the closest example, and even that skews far more toward fat than carbohydrate, with most carbs being fiber. Here's the impact of this:

Even if it's organic, unprocessed, real food.
That’s why the hardest foods to put down aren’t plain carbohydrates... they’re foods that combine carbs and fats.
Pizza, lasagna, bread and butter, chips and guac, all the baked goods, and desserts.
No one binges on plain spaghetti or rice. Carbs that we can't stop eating are usually slathered in fats like butter or oil.
It’s the combination of high fats and carbs that drives over-eating because it's lighting up two reward pathways in the brain that don't normally happen when living ancestrally.
These foods can absolutely be helpful in the right context. They just weren’t meant to be consumed both high, all the time.
One of the most misleading beliefs I see women trying to untangle now is the idea that they should be able to eat 2,500+ calories simply because the food is “pro-metabolic” or “real.”
But your metabolism responds to energetic demand, not ideology. And our current energetic demand is at an all-time low, even if we exercise regularly.
Our hunter-gatherer ancestors walked an average of 20,000 steps daily. Movement was a part of daily life that required proper caloric replenishment.
Fast-forward to modern times: most of us are struggling to get just a few thousand steps a day. Notice I'm not referring to hard-core, intense workouts. I'm talking about just walking. All-day, low intensity movement.
Less than 5,000 steps per day is considered sedentary. Anything under 4,000 steps is associated with increased risk for obesity and diabetes.
This is why I'm so passionate about teaching the importance of simple walking above all else. It's foundational.
I know the impact of this harsh truth, because I lived it. Just a few years ago, I was exercising daily, including running, and still averaging only 4,000 steps per day!
That was the season when I developed pre-diabetes at 40 years old (even though I was balancing my nutrition) and had to radically rethink walking as a foundational metabolic practice.

Meanwhile, the average American consumes between 3,500 and 3,900 calories daily. But the average basal metabolic rate (BMR, or daily calories burned) is roughly 1,650 calories for men and 1,350 calories for women.
With this imbalance, it's easy to see why we have an obesity epidemic. Processed food doesn't make it easier to eat balanced, but eating natural, organic, whole foods is not a free pass to endless calories, either.
That’s why if your daily life includes minimal movement, little to no strength training, and lower muscle mass, you’re simply not burning far beyond the BMR baseline.
If you're carrying excess body fat, that doesn’t mean your hormones are broken or that you ruined your metabolism. It simply means food intake exceeded energy output, consistently. And when that happens, even with high-quality food, the body stores the excess.
What’s important to know is this: none of my former pro-metabolic clients lost weight by exercising more... it started by eating a balanced breakfast and regular meals thereafter.
They didn’t start working out right away. They didn’t add cardio beyond a slight increase in daily steps. They didn’t punish their bodies.
They focused on fueling properly. Because nutrition matters most for your body weight and muscle to body fat ratio.
That looked like:
Increasing lean protein intake to support muscle, satiety, and metabolic signaling
Creating clearer meal timing and spacing
Reducing the constant overlap of carbs and fats at every meal
Building structure without restriction
Letting the body feel safe and predictable again
As that structure returned, weight came down naturally. Along with energy and mood stabilizing, hunger normalizing, and confidence returning.
We didn't abandon pro-metabolic principles. My clients still drink whole milk, eat sourdough bread with butter, and enjoy baked goods.
The biggest shift was consuming food with awareness of the caloric, hormonal, and metabolic impact, which is what we teach in all of our nutrition programming.
Pro-metabolic eating was never meant to be a universal fat-loss strategy, especially for bodies already carrying excess body fat and living relatively low-demand lifestyles.
This pattern, seeing well-intentioned women heavier, confused, and unsure how to move forward, is exactly why I created Awaken Foundations.

In this 4-week container, I will teach you:
How metabolism actually works in real life
Protein sufficiency without tracking
Meal structure that supports fat loss and hormones
Circadian rhythm and timing
The beliefs that quietly drive eating behavior
We're not cutting foods out but rather eating with awareness.
We're creating a flexible structure so that you feel energized and relieved.
If you’ve been thinking, “I did everything right… so why do I feel worse?”
You’re not alone.
And you’re not broken.
Food quality and food quality matter.
If this resonates, Awaken Foundations is your next right step.
There are only a few days left to save $222 when you enroll by January 23rd.
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If you have any questions, just comment below. I would love to hear from you!
See you on the inside,
Lisa
NAMS Certified Nutrition Consultant | Quantum Biology, Hormones, and Mindset Certified Specialist
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